We have seen this Four Way Test poster everywhere. When I was a kid (and until just now) I wonder what this test is all about. I have to search for it in the net to know what this test is all about. Taken straight from The Four Way Test
Is it the TRUTH?
Is it FAIR to all concerned?
Will it build GOODWILL and BETTER FRIENDSHIPS?
Will it be BENEFICIAL to all concerned?”
“One of the world’s most widely printed and quoted statements of business ethics is The Four-Way Test, which was created in 1932 by Rotarian Herbert J. Taylor (who later served as RI president) when he was asked to take charge of a company that was facing bankruptcy.”
And since I am devising a toy test for future reference, I consider incorporating this test to my toy way test.. (and hope that the kids can learn something from it)
Is it the TRUTH?
I was thinking how a truth can be related to toys? We know for a fact that truth is very relative. A truth to you maybe not to your kids. Sometimes we insist on buying toys that we want for them. When buying a toy, in our case, it is always asked first if it was agreed that we are going to buy a toy. In a way we are stressing the fact that indeed we are planning to buy a toy for the kids. Is it the truth? Is it agreed upon that today is a toy day? Those are the first question that I ask my kids when they insist on buying a new toy.
Is it FAIR to all concerned?
Is it fair to all concerned? When we are buying toys for the kids there are only two main things that we put into mind. The price and the quality. Is it really fair? Now I talk about quality, is the quality of the toy measures up to its price? With this question comes a longer chain of reaction.. When the TRUTH question was answered, the next one would be, is it FAIR? or to a more appropriate term for the kids.. Is it CHEAP? followed by is it DURABLE? when a toy is cheap and durable, there is always no need to go on with the GOODWILL and BENEFICIAL question. No need to stress out yourself, just buy it! but if a toy is expensive and not durable, again there is no need for the last two questions to be answered, a flashing (red) NO is always the way to go.
Will it build GOODWILL and BETTER FRIENDSHIPS?
Now when a toy they want is somewhat expensive (but can last a long time), we always have to consider if the toy can be played by different ages, my kids as I have said are ages 5, 3 and 6 months (as of writing). We always take into consideration the aging of the kids. Can they still enjoy the toy even after a year or two? We also take into consideration their age gap.. Are the toys enjoyable for kids ages 5 and 3?
Will it be BENEFICIAL to all concerned?
Lastly, this is the time when we are already on the cashier, or on the way home. Actually this last one is an assurance that you got the right value for the money you spend. Most likely a smile on your kid’s face is the most assuring way to know if it has been beneficial. Beneficial for both parents and kids, for parents, rest assured that your kids will not bother you for a time. Beneficial for the kids because they have learned (again) the value of money
and your love for them.
fedhz says
March 15, 2009 at 4:24 pmGood article. ang galing, hehe! I hope I can write as good as this. ako rin nga eto naghahanap ng toys appropriate for her, she's almost 2 years.. pwede bang hand-me-down na lang from ate peh. hehe! ^^
niko says
February 8, 2010 at 4:52 pmmarce, you just answered the question that has been bugging me since 1998. seriously. di ko naaalala i google when i have time eh… thanks so much. naiiyak ako.. huhuh
kikamz says
February 9, 2010 at 5:02 pmhey, i love this four way test of yours. i must keep this in mind when i buy toys for my little one! teka at i-bookmark ko at nang di ko malimutan! you're such a genius marce! tenchu talaga!
zoan says
February 25, 2010 at 2:40 ampara lang ito yung nakikita ko sa tabi ng daan na karatola ng mga Jaycees ba yun?
Sherry says
February 25, 2010 at 5:24 amwow so much to think when buying toys
redamethyst says
February 25, 2010 at 10:43 amang hirap din pala bumili ng toys ha. hehehe. at kahit saan pwdeng i-apply ang four way test
niko says
March 18, 2010 at 8:24 amMarce thank you talaga sa post na ito, pa print ko to at pakita ko kay yobib. mwahness!
Ane says
September 30, 2011 at 11:53 pmLove this post! Very informative! 🙂
Jenny So says
October 20, 2011 at 5:22 amIt never crossed my mind that the four way test could serve as a simple buying guide.
january says
October 27, 2011 at 9:34 amnow, i can tell OC ka nga kase talagang sa pambili ng toys kelangan me guide talaga 😀