When I first learned about my pregnancy for my first born, I was really happy.. but of course, a very big part of me was worried.. I am not sure how it is to be a parent. I read books, lot of books and in the end I learned that parenting is a never ending learning process. Parenting differs from one parent to another and though I already have four kids I know I still have a lot more to learn. I will share with you some of thine things that I learned along the way:
For first time parents, getting advice from your parents will be your best ally but in the end, what your child needs should still be your guide. You have to remember that every child is different, every technique is different.. Do not be influence with what people says. Take their advice, learn from it but don’t live for it.
Having another child can be difficult at times, you will be dealing with jealousy and siblings rivalry. You cannot prevent petty quarrels but you prevent jealousy. Start right by educating your first born about the incoming baby and from there work it out for them to love each other.
Having a lot of kids (more than 2) is a lot harder.. there is too much that needs your attention and admit it or not, it is really hard to manage time, and spending the same number of hours with each kid.. the best advise I got is to date my kids, spend a time for each, take them out and make them special.
Lastly, parenting involves your partner too.. both of you should practice or agree on the same technique, the kids will know if you do not agree and will use it to their advantage 🙂
Never underestimate your kid’s capacity to manipulate you, they’re very good on that and of course never forget to let your kids know how much you love.. I believe that’s the most effective parenting style 🙂
