The most disappointing phrase I heard is this:
“Matalino naman po ang anak ninyo, mahiyain lang.”
What does it mean? What have I done wrong? How can I make it better for my kid? Or how can I make him be more “sociable”?
I have that kind of problem with my 3rd born. In fact, his shyness overcomes his “intelligence” when he was in pre school. Because he is very very shy, he lost interest in learning. So many changes happened this school year. I guess I mentioned it once how shocked proud we were that he’s finally getting the hang of it. He’s top 6 on his class! Yipeeee!
BUT!
He’s still shy.. his adviser mentioned that his recitations were not that good last quarter (pero top 6 pa rin sya ha!). We still have to work on him being people smart. Slowly, we’re getting there. His teacher said, he is improving a lot. Oh my, I can’t wait for the day that he competes in say, declamation contest (like his Kuya) or anything that would require him to face the crowd. Just thinking about it now, it makes me cry! Siguro pag nangyari ito, kahit anong laruan ang hingin nya sa akin eh bibilhin ko hahaha
Siguro iniisip nyo, bakit ba hindi ako kuntento eh nasa top 10 na nga sya.. why would I want him to be more sociable and less shy. I just want my kids to be smart in every aspect possible. Even DepEd recognizes that excellence is not all about the books.
In fact, DO 92, s. 2009 – Revised Guidelines on the Selection of Honor Pupils and Students states that to determine the top ten (10), pupils/students shall be ranked using the 7-3 point scheme (7 points for academic performance and 3 points for co-curricular activities) as contained in Enclosure Nos. 1 and 2. See? It’s not all about academic performance, co-curricular activities are considered too!
It’s no big deal to want your child to have Multiple Intelligence di ba?
Multiple Intelligence. new words. big meaning.
Let’s to make this as simple as possible.
What is Multiple Intelligence?
It is a theory conceived by Howard Gardner, a professor from Harvard Graduate School. It means to be brain smart, body smart, and people smart.
The theory says that intelligence is not all about academics, areas such as interaction with others and being good at sports or dancing are also intelligence criteria.
It’s a holistic approach in learning and obviously, this is how I want my kids to be. Yes, I choose #MultipleIntelligence.
Next week, I will post some approaches on we teach our 3rd born to be more sociable and be people smart.
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